Section 3
'What is love, Baby don't hurt me!' Love vs. Infatuation/Lust
I. What is
love?
1. Without him it is impossible to love!
II. Lust, Satan's counterfiet.
A. Lust
is rushed and rash, irritable, envious, boasts, proud(look
at me), rude, self seeking(what can I get), easily angered,
remembers things only to its advantage, lies, bails out, says
'you will never get anything better', always in fear and
doubting, gives up easily, lust fails.
B. Love
always
Lust
grows out of friendship . . .is instant
Self giving . . . . . . . . . . . .Possesive and jealous
Thinks
ahead . . . . . . . . . .selfish, speaks mind. NOW!
I love you PERIOD . . . . . .I Love you if . . .
Patient excepting faults . . . Blind, Ignores faults
Trusts
God . . . . . . . . . . . .Trusts desires
Section 4
10 Commandments of Dating/ Purity and commitment
I. No hanky panky!
B. Run from
Temptation, Avoid the situation.
2.
90% of Christian teens think that sex is for love
a.
Sex is for marriage!!
3. On
the average relationships last only 3 weeks after
sexual
intercourse.
4.
You are 4 times more likely to get a STD than to get
preganant!
1. v.3
Date only one at a time(that means in your head also)
2.
v.4 NEVER make date the focus. Jesus is the focus
3.
v.7 Protect the others name and reputation
4. v.8 Take a break from each other once a week spend
time with God or other friends
5. v.12 Honor you Father and Mother(they know what they
are talking about(Really) they have been there)
6.
v.13 Watch your mouth! Life and death are in the power of
the tounge
7.
v.14 Do not commit Adultry(Lust, flirt with others etc)
8.
v.15 Do not rob the spotlight(Credit or a 'moment')
9.
v.16 Do not lie(fabricate, exagerate) to each other
10.
v.17 Do not covet attention . . . Live to change/become better!
DO NOT EVER date for Money, Sex, Or Fame, NEVER love someone's life more than person!
The Commitment ==> "I hereby commit not to date an Unbeliever under any circumstance. I commit
to stay pure, innocent, and abstanate before marriage. I commit not to dat until my love and relationship with God is complete!
I will not date for Popularity but for Purpose. As God is my witness and My strength.
Note from T.J.==> If you follow God's way of doing thing's in your life you will not regret it. This goes
for Dating as well as everything else, it is when you step out of God's plan is when things go bad and you will regret that
for the rest of your life. below is a commitment that I challenge all to read and consider. Would you like to make that commitment
before the Lord? Commitments are serious things do not say you will if you won't! Lieing to God is not taken lightly! If you
would Like to make this commitment for yourself I ask that you do two things, first pray that commitment to God asking
him to help you, and also email me at
Superman86314@juno.com. I like to get a running tally up as to who has made this commitment and I would also like to pray for you. If you have any
questions concerning this or any other paper on this site feel free to email me, and I will respond at my easiest convenience.
Thanks, Your Friend in
the Lord,
T.J. Torgerson
